Friday, February 22, 2013

Madison: 5 months old




Sleep:  She is doing okay.  One big thing: she is not sleeping in her carseat anymore!  You heard me right, she slept through the night in her carseat for her first 5 months.  For a number of reasons including her having gas, acid reflux, and all of our traveling, we found that it was the best thing for us.  Now, she has been in her pack n play for the last few weeks until we move into our house when she'll transition to the crib.  Sleep in general, things have been a little inconsistent (like, our whole life since about December 17th when we left for the house hunting trip out here).  Here's to hoping that things settle down when we move into the new house on March 1st.  Lately, she has been waking up 2 and 3 times a night.  Not fun for me.  SO, I started "sleep training" or trying to about a week ago.  I will tell you, this girl can cry like it's her job.  She can go for 40 minutes screaming with only a couple breaks to catch a breath.  She cries until she is literally dripping sweat and shaking.  It's pretty bad.  But at the same time, I want her to be able to fall asleep on her own so I don't need to spend 20 minutes putting her down for a 40 minute nap.  This.is.a.journey.  On the other hand, there have been a few times when after crying, fell asleep for 1-2 hours of nap time.  Let's pray more of that comes with practice.  At this very moment, she is napping after fighting a huge battle of crying because she wanted me to hold her for the entire nap.  No can do.  It's going on 1.5 hours napping now (yay!).  Her naps have been inconsistent but consistently not longer than 40 minutes for the last month.  Almost exactly 43 minutes every time.  Not joking.  With all that to say, I know that it could be way worse.

(*I wrote this right when she turned 5 months, so an update: this past week she has been taking 3 naps pretty consistently, the first nap around 9:30am for about 50 minutes, then a 1-2 hour afternoon nap at about 1:00pm, and a third nap in the late afternoon for about 40 minutes)  I think this is the normal schedule for most babies, taking a morning and afternoon nap then maybe a random 3rd sometimes.  Hoping she stays on this!


On top of that, she isn't really taking her binky/pacifier very much at all which seems funny since most babies LOVE them.    She is a unique little lady.

Eating:  We are still breastfeeding, but my milk supply has been up and down, but mostly down.  We've been supplementing formula more and more lately.  It could be because of stress and transition that my body isn't producing normally.  One thing is for sure, she loves baby food.  We've tried oatmeal, bananas, pears, apples, sweet potatoes, carrots.  Her favorite so far has been the bananas.  She is getting better and better at learning how to eat instead of just suck.  She actually opens and closes her mouth now and pulls my hand that holds the spoon toward her mouth.  If she was a little more coordinated, she would probably spoon feed herself.


Carrots!


 She loves bath time.  We give her baths 2-3 times a week and she just sits there kicking and splashing.  She doesn't really like it when I pour water over her face, but I guess I wouldn't either.

She still doesn't really like to lay back.  If someone is holding her, she wants to be standing or sitting straight up.  She can now sit up on her own unless trying to reach for something, in which case she topples over.  She has rolled both ways, back to belly and belly to back now.  When I lay her on the floor and look down a couple minutes later, she is off of the blanket and slowly rolling in all directions. She get's frustrated when she can't reach or grab something, so she is pretty motivated to move.  Just wondering when she is going to get crawling...

Exhibit A.  I placed her in the middle of the mat on her back. 
Exhibit B.  The toys were too boring.  Off to bigger, better things.
We just this week (at 5.5 months) have started unswaddling her at nap times.  She is still swaddled at night.  Other moms: when did you stop swaddling your baby?  I've read a lot online, but there isn't a clear answer that I've found.  We have swaddled her very loosely a few times and she wakes up multiple times a night with her hands in her face completely unswaddled.  She seems to like it so I hate to stop unless it's necessary.  During naps, I keep one or both of her arms out of her swaddle blanket.

She is SO vocal.  Squeals and talking all the time.  There have been a few times when we were at a restaurant or on the phone and got embarrassed because she was so loud (but happy loud).


She is definitely getting a little attitude and getting her own preferences.  She does NOT like peas.  Not even mixed with her favorite fruit (bananas).

She went through a couple weeks when she hated her carseat.  So frustrating for mommy!  I've heard that many babies go through this stage.  I mean, I would hate being strapped in to that thing, too.  There were a couple days when it was driving me nuts...I though, "what the heck?!  I've gotta get out of this apartment once in awhile!"  She loves going on runs with me in the stroller.  She looks around, talks, and then usually falls asleep.



She loves when we sing songs to her, especially "I'm bringing home a baby bumble bee, won't my mommy be so proud of me..."  It's a guaranteed smile or giggle.

She also loves this jumper that we bought her a couple weeks ago.  Mommy loves it, too!!  It helps when I need to have a 10 minute break for a shower or just a breather ;-)



Love love love our darling girl.



Monday, February 11, 2013

Children's Music

Madison and I have been spending a lot of time together lately, especially with Bryce at work all day.

Normally, I love the Top 40.  Beyonce, Ke$ha, Lady Gaga, Lumineers, Fun, Mumford, Taylor Swift.  However, I've realized that the Top 40 isn't always child-friendly, so I have started exploring kid music for the first time.  My first thought was that children's music is super annoying and not fun to listen to.

In my search for good children's music, I've developed a few favorites.  First off, I love the Pandora "Raffi" children's music station.  Raffi has a calm voice and sings a lot of classics.  Second, I love Frances England.  Go check out her awesome website!  You can listen to her albums on the website so,  many times, I just press play and keep it going while we're hanging out at home.  Her songs are so sweet and simple.  She has a really not-annoying voice, too!  The Pandora "Baby Einstein" children's station is another good one.

Today, I can relate to this song since I was up 3 times last night :(

Friday, February 8, 2013

The Red House

We are in the process of buying a house.  Our first house that we will own.

We're calling it the red house.  It reminds me of a cottage.

We love it.

It's more space than we were expecting or even wanted, but it is in the exact neighborhood that we love, 3 miles from his work, running trails directly behind the house, .5 mile walking to a huge park, .6 miles from a grocery store, and a decent backyard that is fenced in.  Another thing I love about it-it is move-in ready with no major necessary changes, but definitely a few cosmetic things we can/want to do to make it our own.  I think we'll have fun making changes like painting walls, painting the kitchen cabinets, planting grass in the backyard (it's all gravel/dirt).  


They accepted our offer and we dove right into it.  We had the inspection last Thursday, working up on the contract with our realtor, had the roof double-checked, and will have an appraisal.  We are supposed to close on February 28th, so it's perfect timing since our temporary housing ends at the end of the month.

Can't wait to start posting fun house projects that we tackle.  BUT Bryce and I decided to not go crazy with projects, so we'll have to enforce some kind of every-other-weekend rule or limit the projects each month so we can explore the area, go hiking, have quality family time, meet people, and relax.

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

We've arrived!

Leaving the east coast
This has been perhaps one of the craziest weeks we've ever had.  We left the east coast on Sunday.  Arrived in Portland.  Cars shipped and arrived at the hotel that day.  Immediately (as in, within an hour of landing), we went to see our top 3 favorite homes.  Wrote up an offer with realtor for our favorite home Sunday night.  Checked into temporary housing apartment on Monday.  Found grocery store, spent forever finding needed groceries, settled in to apartment that we'll be in for 30 days.  Then we found out that our offer was accepted on Monday night!  Boxes of a few necessary items to temporary housing arrived on Tuesday morning.  Finally, I unpacked boxes of baby toys, diapers, work clothes, shoes.

It was so nice to be here for a week before Bryce started work.  We were able to hang out, get a few things done regarding the house and paperwork, and explore.  First stops in Portland: Stumptown Coffee and Powell's bookstore.  We also went to look at Pittock Mansion which has a great overlook over the city.


Rose garden at Washington park



Then on Saturday, we ventured east of Portland to go hiking at Multnomah Falls.  It was beautiful!  It was our second hike with Madison.  She did awesome.  I had her in the Ergo carrier.  So proud of her lately.  She's been very easy going and naps almost anywhere.





Many people have said we're lucky because there have been quite a few nice sunny days.  The Pacific Northwest is known for rainy/overcast weather, especially in the winter.  I see it as God's little gift to us in the midst of the craziness :-)

And a sweet view of Mt. Hood from Portland!
We have experienced rain
Bryce started work yesterday.  In March, he already has travel plans to go to Switzerland for 12 days :(  He isn't going to travel very often, maybe once every business quarter.  I'm hoping my Dad can come out for at least a few days so I'm not by myself with Madison for that long!

Madison and I went out on an adventure to a thrift store yesterday in downtown Portland.  Madison picked out a wood pedestal table for the breakfast nook in the new house.  While Bryce works, I'm just trying to have 1 thing a day that I do to get out around the area, even if it's just going for a run.  Other adventures: TJ Maxx down the street from our apartment (dangerous!), finding an alterations place, finding the post office, checking out a couple different grocery stores, trying out a gym.



Speaking of, our apartment is nice, but definitely interesting to be back in an apartment.  I think we have heard 2 domestic disputes above us...one at 3 in the morning, another at midnight.  Aaand we have been going to bed around 9pm, waking up at 6am, so those extra wake up calls (in addition to Madison's night feeding) are not appreciated.  Plus, I feel not so comfortable letting Madison cry loud since I can hear other babies crying around us (and people yelling).  Glad it's only for 30 days!

We tried out a church last week and are excited to try a few others in the area.  Hoping to meet people and get some friends to hang out with!  I may also try MOPS (a young mom group) in our area.

Today I just made Madison's 6 month appoint.  How is she already almost 6 months old?!  What would a post be without a photo (or 2) of our sweet girl...
"Who, me?"
"Oh, stop it!" 

Friday, February 1, 2013

Christmas 2012

Now that it's February, I decided to write about our Christmas.

It was a Christmas of firsts.  Madison's first Christmas!  We had such a fun time.  We went to North Carolina for a week to spend time with the Adams family.  It was also the first Christmas with Kim, Amanda, Laura, David, and Ellerie.  We were one huge family of 15 people!  As tradition goes, we went to church on Christmas Eve and out to Chinese at Phoenix for dinner.  When we got back home, the kids put on their Christmas pajamas.  We took tons of pictures.  Late Christmas Eve, the girls wrapped presents, told funny stories, and danced in the basement with Kim.  The boys cuddled on my Dad's bed, enjoyed vodka gimlets, and watched A Christmas Story.









Dads and daughters
Fun time with aunties


Amy was good at making her laugh
Christmas pajamas!


Christmas morning ready to open presents!



Right before we started opening gifts, Madison woke up.  Shortly after Bryce went to get her, he yelled to me, "Lis, I need back up!!"  I went upstairs to find out Madison had finally gone #2 after 3 days of nothing.  As we started to change her, it was all over her back, stomach, bottom, legs, and then she got her hands and feet in it.  Merry Christmas morning!  Everyone waited on us to give her a full, necessary bath before we came back down to open presents together.  

Christmas morning

One of Bryce's presents from Dad.  Excited to start fly fishing out in Oregon

Special present to Kim from Emily and I.  Thank you, Etsy!

Kids had so much fun!  Papa and Nana Kim spoiled them!
 We started opening presents around 9am.  We went one at a time, present by present, until around 11:30am, when we started moving things along a little faster.  We finally finished at noon and ate a huge breakfast together.  The rest of the day, we hung out in our pjs and played with the kids toys.

Abby the chef, playing with all of her new toys all day.
After a week in North Carolina, we drove straight to West Virginia to see the Whiteds.  We spent almost a full week visiting with Mimi and Pops.  

Mimi helps with the best photo shoots!

Madison met Brad for the first time! (and Santa)

It's been so long since we've been able to get a FULL family photo!


We also just found out that Brad will be stationed at Quantico in Virginia and will not be deployed for 3 years!

We tried to get a picture of all babies with Santa, but Adelyn wasn't okay with that.
Maddie was pretty content.