Saturday, January 24, 2015

6 months in

Downtown Bulach this summer
Believe it or not, we have been here for SIX MONTHS!

Here's an update with a few answers to the basic questions.

How are things?
We are doing really well.  The longer we are here, the more we like life here.  There are certain things that aren't convenient to us as Americans, but we are used to them now (i.e. paying for parking at the grocery store, and paying to use a cart, smaller fridge/freezer, not speaking the language, etc.).

Have you found friends?
Yes!  A place doesn't feel like home until you have community, that's for sure.  We have a few friends that we are getting to know and it feels good.  We've had a few friends over for play dates and some over for dinner.  It makes all the difference when you have friends.

Have you found a church?
Yes!  IPC Zurich.  We really like it.  It's similar and different to churches we've attended in the past, but it's starting to feel like home.  We just became official members last week and hope to get more involved.

What do you like most so far?
Life seems so simple here.  I can't quite put my finger on what it is that makes it feel that way.  I think a large part is renting an apartment.  We no longer have any home responsibilities aside from keeping our place clean which is easy because it's smaller than our last home.  We can wake up on the weekends and say, "what should we do today?" with no mowing the lawn, painting a room, repairing anything, raking leaves, and the list goes on.

I also love the way of life here.  People don't seem rushed.  They are friendly and helpful.  I can count on one hand the number of negative interactions I've had with people.  There's just something almost old fashioned about the way of life here.  On many occasions, I've seen people go to the grocery store with an actual straw basket in hand to carry their groceries home.  Quite different than driving home from Costco with your Suburban packed to the rim with extra toilet paper.  More people ride bikes or walk places than any other place we've lived.

The beauty of this place continues to leave us stunned.   We've been to many beautiful places, but Switzerland as a whole is a remarkably gorgeous (and clean) country all around.

We are located in such a prime location within driving distance to places we never dreamed of living close to like Paris, the coast of Italy and France, and Austria.

Cured meats/sausages, cheese, and chocolate.


What do you least like so far?
Paying for parking...which, many people here in CH would say that I could avoid by taking advantage of the wonderfully efficient public transportation.  The thing is, I personally find driving my own car much more convenient with the kids and toting their gear around (and feeling like we can be on our own schedule rather than a bus/train schedule).
Speeding tickets.  I haven't received any yet, but someone else in our family maybe has a time or two.  I have not seen ONE police officer pull any over for anything and I've only seen a police officer out of his car with a radar speed tester once in the six months that we've lived here.  I hardly ever see police cars on the road, now that I think about it.  BUT, boy oh boy do they have hidden cameras.  Even just two kilometers over the speed limit and you are looking at $150+ speeding tickets.  I'm not joking.  Bryce has an Italian friend that has received something like 6 tickets and if she gets any more, she may have her license taken away.  There's no "oh you can go 5-10 miles over without getting pulled over or heavily fined."

What things/products do you miss most?
Good Mexican food.  Going out to eat...we've done this a few times, but it's so expensive to eat out and the little ones make eating out difficult.  Date nights...still trying to figure out a convenient babysitting option.

Have you learned any German yet?
Not through any lessons (yet)...but I've caught on to some basic vocabulary from living and shopping here.  Bryce will start with a German tutor at work this week.  I'm waiting for an email back with more information about classes twice a week that start in February with childcare.  It's a very difficult language to learn.  It's also very difficult to find motivation since nearly everyone speaks enough English for us to get around just fine.

How is Bryce's job going?
Great!  He's enjoying it, being challenged in his new role, and getting into a "groove" here.

Do you have any travel plans coming up?
The Fall was full of day trips, a trip home, and an overnight to the mountains.  Then we took two fun trips just recently to France and to the mountains with family that visited.  Now, we don't have any major travel plans scheduled until May, when we'll head home to the States.  Bryce has a couple days off for Easter, so we may jet off somewhere, who knows.  Even though it seems like we travel often and it feels a little crazy, it also seems crazy NOT to take advantage of living in close proximity to so many beautiful places.

What is the weather like?
It's been snowing on and off.  The weather here reminds us a lot of Blacksburg, VA, where we lived when Bryce was working on his Ph.D.  Cold, cloudy, and snowy winters (but not too much snow, like say, Buffalo, NY).  Warm summers, especially in August, but not sweltering, with only a little humidity.  Fall has beautiful leaves and Spring, well, we don't know yet, but I'm sure it's lovely.

How are the kids getting along?
The kids are doing great.  I think Maddie will probably start picking up Swiss German more and more.  She says "Nein" to us all the time (which means "no").  She's not shy at all about spending time with people who only speak German.  She seems very comfortable here.  And Carter, well, let's be honest, he's happy wherever I am.

Exploring downtown Bulach during one of our first weeks here.

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Traveling with the kids



After this trip, we came to a few conclusions about traveling with young kids:

1. Renting an apartment or house is far easier than a hotel.
2. Half day outings make for a happy family. [Either morning before naps or right after naps usually works best for us.]
3. Eat most meals at the apartment or eat picnic take-out meals.  Avoid meals at restaurants, when possible.  [We ate one meal at a sit down restaurant this entire trip.  It was much more enjoyable for everyone.  Of course, we dreamt of sitting with a glass of wine at a restaurant with an ocean view, but we had a great trip which was fun for everyone on top of saving lots of time and money that would be spent at a restaurant.]
4. Bring toys, blankies, and anything else that make the kids more comfortable in the new place.
5. Lower your expectations and pick maybe 1-2 things a day that are important to see/do.  Any more than that and you will find that you're too rushed or stressed to enjoy it.  [We planned to rent bikes for a day, but with the kids sick, we changed plans and just spent a couple hours walking around with the stroller.]
6. Try to plan one thing a day specifically for the kids. [Sometimes I feel like we are dragging them around, but when we have at least one thing a day just for them, it seems like we all enjoy ourselves more.  The carousel and playing on the rocky beach were big hits with Maddie.]

On flights:

There are a ton of great tips about traveling with young ones on plane rides.  We travel with them a lot.  It seems a little crazy that Maddie was on her first cross country flight at 3 months old (NC-->OR) and Carter had a passport at 6 weeks old.  Each time, we all get a little better at it.  It seems like we've already had "worst case scenarios" which make flying seem a little less daunting.  I still get stressed the day before, but remind myself over and over, what's the worst case?  In my opinion, vomiting kids and screaming babies are the worst.  We've had our share of both, finding ourselves literally counting down the minutes left in the flight and praying to God we can just get off the darn plane without screaming ourselves.


Don't forget:

  • the iPad and charger
  • blankies and/or special little stuffed animal or baby doll
  • multiple fun, new snacks (pouches, fruit snacks, M&Ms, goldfish, peanut butter crackers, etc.)
  • extra change of clothes 
  • diapers, wipes
  • sippy cup/bottle
  • little fun new toys (wind up car to play with in the airport, coloring book and crayons, bubbles, best place to look is the Target dollar section or the Dollar Store
  • medicine (children's ibuprofen and Benedryl...because Carter spiked a high fever 2 hours into a 7 hour flight and I was overcome with anxiety)
  • a few favorite books that she hasn't seen in awhile
We always try to remember to:
  • Add a new game or show to the iPad the night before we fly (and even keep the iPad away for a few days before so that it is "new and exciting")
  • Don't force a kid to take a nap, let them just fall asleep when they are completely worn out
  • Try to become friendly with the flight attendants because you may hang out in the back of the plane a lot
  • Let them walk up and down the aisle if they're restless and definitely get them to run around in the airport during layovers
  • I actually prefer shorter flights even if that means more layovers (as long as it doesn't increase overall travel time a ton)
  • Let go of any expectations, be flexible, and do whatever it takes to make it through the day (even if that means giving them candy that you wouldn't normally give them or chips or whatever)
  • Think about what's best to bring as far as strollers and carriers depending on your situation (AND what would be easiest lugging through the airports, cars, planes, etc. along with multiple carry ons)
  • Wear layers because one minute, you'll be carrying a baby in a carrier sweating, then you'll be sitting on a cold plane, then you may be carrying a 25 lb toddler for what feels like a mile through the airport
If you ever see anyone traveling with little ones and think they could use help or even some encouragement, don't hesitate to go up to them!!!  It means a lot.  I remember traveling alone with Maddie when she was under 12 months old.  An older woman behind me happily offered to hold her for a few minutes so I could go to the bathroom, eat something, and give my arms a break.  I took her up on it and was relieved to have just 10 minutes.  I'll never forget her.

Traveling with little ones is not easy.  In fact, it can feel almost impossible at some moments.  But once you do it, even if it's just once, you gain so much confidence realizing that you CAN do it.  Now that is worth more than you know and you can't get that confidence without taking the dive.  Some people try to avoid it because of fear, others, like us, don't have a choice because of where our lives lead us.

I can't remember what it was ever like to cozy up to a book during a flight.  So if you're one of those, definitely enjoy that for me! :-)  



Monday, January 19, 2015

Carter: 8 months

This little guy is 8 months old (almost 9 months)!


He looks as surprised as us.
He loves to clap.  He doesn't do it all the time, but when he does, he is so happy about it.



What's new-
He finally got a tooth!  He actually has his two front bottom teeth now.  They came almost at the exact same time.  He really wants to be mobile but still can't quite get it right.  He pivots and pushes forward a little bit, but not quite crawling yet.  He loves picking up toys and inspecting them by putting them in his mouth.  He blabbers all the time, many times getting quite loud squealing.  He's very interactive, he moves in to "kiss" me and giggles after we bonk heads, and he is obsessed with whatever Maddie is doing.


I love those hands, feet, and rolls in those thighs.
We all know that a monthly update photo shoot always includes a couple with big sister.

Eating
He eats 2-3 meals of solid food a day.  He breastfeeds 5-6 times a day depending on how much he eats.  No big update here since last month.

Sleeping
It seems that we are in a pretty good routine.  It's about the same as last month.  The traveling here and there tends to mess things up but that's the sacrifice we take with it, right?


His hair is getting so long!  He has a little bed head now when he wakes up!




I love when he wakes up from his nap.  He is all smiles.



Maddie at 8 months old.

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Day 5: Drive home

We drove the 6 hour ride home from Nice which turned into an 8 hour drive with the two stops.  It's become a habit to stop at McDonald's to eat lunch on long car rides.  It doesn't get much easier or quicker than McDonald's with kids.  Maddie can jump on the booth seat and eat her meal on her own time.  Carter can be loud and bang on the high chair.  We don't have to wait on anything or pay extra for a waiter.  The best part: the happy meal comes with an exciting toy that keeps their attention while were eating.

Details of the trip:

We stayed in Mont Boron in an apartment off of airbnb.

Day 1: Hiking from apartment to downtown Nice-probably about 5 miles total

  • walked around and ate sandwiches on the beach then took the bus back

Day 2: Half day to Eze- about 20 minute drive

  • walked around the medieval village for just a couple hours

Day 3: Christmas Eve-a couple hours walking around Nice

  • the beach, the Port, Promenade des Anglais or the "boardwalk", Place Massena-a big pedestrian plaza, Promenade du Paillon-huge park area with play grounds and fountains, Vielle Ville or Old Town Nice

Day 4: Christmas Day- about 10 minute drive-a couple hours walking around Villefranche-sur-Mer

  • walked along the beach and through Old Town

Day 5: Drive home

  • passed through Monaco but decided not to stop 

Friday, January 16, 2015

Day 4: Christmas Day

On Christmas Day, we went for a morning walk near the apartment and found an overlook towards Nice.





Later in the morning, we drove 10 minutes to Villefranche-sur-Mer.  We parked at the beach and took a long walk to old town.  We were surprised at how many restaurants were actually open with guests eating right on the water.  I loved this town.  It was by far my favorite.  I don't think I would change how we did this trip, except maybe renting an apartment in this town.  The beach was nicer and quieter than Nice.

Old town Villefranche-sur-Mer




You can see that we parked way over here and walked along the water to end up in old town.  It was so beautiful.




Merry Christmas from us!







We returned for lunch and naps.  In the afternoon, we facetimed our families and ate our turkey dinner.  Praise God for iphones and modern technology!  We're halfway across the world and "see" our families almost every week.

We opened our last box from Mimi and Pops!  Dinosaurs, cars, a purse, chocolates, and a baby that pees...couldn't ask for more :-)

Hope you and yours had a very happy Christmas!!! xoxo

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Day 3: Christmas Eve in Nice

On Christmas Eve, the kids weren't sleeping well (as in, both waking every hour) and were coughing a lot, so we spent the morning resting.  After researching doctors who spoke English and how it works for tourists from out of country, we found a doctor (praise God!!) who was literally DOWN THE STREET and open ON CHRISTMAS EVE.  Now that was a serious answer to prayer.

It seemed like the medicine started working almost immediately for both of them.  Carter wasn't that bad, just congested, but Maddie was especially not feeling great.

After their naps in the afternoon, we drove into Nice just for a couple hours with the double stroller to walk around.


As soon as we got there, we had a late lunch on the beach.  I insisted on crepes: banana Nutella and another with prosciutto, goat cheese, and arugula.






You can't really tell that she wasn't feeling well.  Thank you, modern medicine!






She had a BALL on that thing.  She could've stayed on it all day.  No, all week.  We took her on 3 rides then literally pulled her off while she kicked and cried.













 It was really nice to let the kids rest in the comfy stroller while we could still walk around and see some of the main sights.  They both fell asleep as we strolled the quiet Christmas Eve streets of old town Nice.





We did find a turkey to eat for Christmas Eve...but the oven didn't cooperate and turned off in the middle of slow cooking the turkey so we ate it the next day when I could monitor the slow cooking.


This night, we actually ate with the kids and spent some time playing.  Mimi and Pops sent us 3 boxes with Christmas gifts in them, so we opened one a day.  New exciting toys kept them busy when we were hanging out at the apartment.  Thank you, grandparents!  It felt like a little Christmas every day.